I was recently on a flight to Chicago and seated next to a business man, he was in his early 30's and from Germany. He wasn't very talkative which is fine,I had reading material with me to keep me occupied. When the flight attendant asked what he would like to drink, he curtly responded ginger ale. It was interesting the tone of voice and I felt he was looking down at the attendant, not to mention the lack of a please.
I had know way of know what his day had been like so I thought no more of it. The he stood up as if to go to the rest room, and was gesturing, as I looked at him he said I need to get up.I played dumb and I said I was sorry I didn't catch what he said and he replied oh excuse me please.
It doesn't matter what kind of day you are having, if you can be polite and kind to people things will change quickly for you. I felt in this case there was something going on, like the universe was saying paying attention, so I did.
At the baggage claim, I heard him on the phone with a sales prospect and again there was this tone and lack of kindness almost like a superiority.thought it was an odd way to sell someone.
Well as the universe would have it and orchestrate it, I ran into this man again, at a Starbucks in the city, what are the odds of that. I was able to overhear his conversation with a fellow salesman and he was complaining that his sales were down and how he didn't like the company sales materials and how he thought that was the root of the problem.
This was a great example of someone who treats others badly and not understanding that there is a cost for this behavior. You have an energy vibration that sends out signals that you think this person is less than you, you are superior, you don't care much for them. In this case it was being reflected in his sales and I'm sure he was running into bad service at places too.
If you feel that way, it's a good idea to clean up your thoughts and actions then go off on the sales call.
Also, no one is less than we are, we can be different for sure, though that does not make us superior. We can make more money than someone, that does not make us superior. When people recognize this life is better.