The last couple of posts, may have brought up some resistance within you. Thoughts along the lines of, you don't understand, they were very rude, they really screwed up, they started it, I just can't forgive this or even forget this.
All of that is true, no question about it. However, whatever they did, they stopped doing it, days, weeks, months, years, decades ago and now you are the one keeping it alive. It has moved past them doing it to you and now you doing it to yourself. Why would you do such a thing?
Is it better to be free emotionally? Is it better to be in alignment/vortex so you can get what you want as opposed to what you don't want?
Can you see how making a change is to help you and not make them right or wrong?