I encourage you to write down where you were in your life at the beginning of the decade and where you are now and have appreciation for the progress you have made in that time.
As I observe many people I know, either as current or former clients and others who are part of my life the progress and transformation and who they are now is quite stunning. They have accomplished much and yet many lack appreciation and ownership of that, instead focus on where or who they are not, bringing much suffering.
I used to get frustrated observing that suffering, in a way I wanted to control their experience so they didn't suffer so much. Needless to say that wasn't doing me much good and I learned to allow each person to go through what they chose to go through.
My end of decade message is this: I encourage you to own who you are, appreciate who you are, choose ease and peace more quickly than you have before and live in the possibility.